It's really not that complicated... 

-I have moments of frustration, anger and self-pity.

I have moments of joy, pride and celebration. 

-I mourn the loss of my carefully-mapped-out life.

I celebrate the inner strength and voice I have found as I navigate my new life.

-I'm sad that my son can not (yet) fully communicate complex thoughts and emotions.

I'm awe-struck by his pure, perfect simplicity.

-I wish my daughter did not have to be burdened with the challenges of a family raising a special-needs child.

I love the maturity, strength, love and generosity she has developed.

-It cuts me to the bone when my wife has moments of sadness and pain.

I feel so lucky to have found such a wonderfully caring partner to share my life.

-I feel angry at society's ignorance and cruelty.

I am inspired by society's compassion and understanding.    

-I hate Autism.

I have uncovered a depth of love I never new possible thanks to Autism.   

You see?  It's simple.